Tania Kettle

So apparently, I am gettting a reputation for being difficult and argumentative.

Bwahahahahahaha...take a number and stand in line.

But all jokes aside, in this particular conversation there were two (2) perople from the same company, standing in front of me, giving me conflicting advice. 

Not differences of opinion.

Actual, 100%, differing facts.

No argument from me, no Oh For Fucks Sake AND in my quiet voice (which I was super proud of myself for), I just politely re-said their words back to them, then asked,

So which one of you is lying?

Boom. 

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And things are getting interesting with Belles.

Belles hocks have settled and are now only slightly sore, but not sore enough for steroid injections.  However, her muscles over her back were still very tight and sore, but spine is all ok.

So Belles had her first Accupuncture session today by the Vet after she had had her check and everything, as I am writing this, has settled down nicely.

I fucking love horses, especially getting them race ready.

She is now back in training and I will keep you updated on what kind of times she is doing for miles.

That sounded very professional, but honestly, I have no more idea of what that means than you do.

I'll give you times, then tell you what times should be being done and/or where Belle sits in the mile.

Trust me, lots of questions are being asked, and answered, but it will be very simple for you and I in the future.

This is the time Belle needs to be doing....this is the time Belles is doing.

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Trying lots of new stuff again and so far, loving lots of it.

It's a real win at the moment.

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If someone says to you that they want to kill themselves, you have to speak to one other person.

You don't have to call Mental Health and it doesn't matter that they have sworn you to secrecy.

You have to speak to one other person.

Many, many moons ago, back when I was only just starting my life, two 12 year old boys committed suicide.

It was a double one.

One of the boys, (and his family - his older brother was my friend) were moving to Australia, and them being boys, and young, didn't want to be separated.

There are three tragedies here:

1) The boys completed it.

2) The two weeks previously, the boys had spoken freely about what they were going to do, and no-one believed them.

3) They thought that gassing themselves in a car, that they could start it, and then would have time to get out.

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** Just had an email from Head Office re the disagreement I had earlier in the week, saying that I had had an official complaint made against me for making them cry and being abusive.

Of For Fucks Sake.

For future reference, if you are going to try and lay a complaint, make sure that I don't have years of professional history with two (separate) people in the company who will state, beyond a reasonable doubt, that I do not, actually, go round abusing people.

And asking questions is not argumentative.

Or abuse.

Keep asking those questions, baby doll.

Bwahahahahahahaha

The whole world has gone fucking mad.

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So that's been our week:

Take what you need, leave the rest, don't be a Fuckwit.

Kissy hugs

Caps, me (T - she/her), Spirit, Az, Ralph, Chew, Suz, and of course, my beautiful Mumma Bear, Belle and Boo-ba-licious, Pat, Pepper, Marmite the Second, Geraldine, Milli, Bessie, Raz, Riz, Sugar, Butter, Cookie, Cinammon and Mork. 

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