15 Jun 26 I never thought that I would have to say this, but apparently I do, and it goes like this: At the exact moment that a man scares you, get the fuck out. Seriously. I don't understand how someone can do something knowing that it will make you scared at night. To sleep alone. To be alone. To put fear into your Soul. Now, to be fair though, it doesn't start like this. Obviously. You're not stupid. You would have walked away if he showed traits like this immediately. Which is how this Energy sneaks in. First it gives you an emotional, almost sexual charge. Then comes the great sex. I remember seeing a comedienne once and she said, The best sex you ever had will never be with the guy holding down a 9 to 5 job, has a great credit score, and calls his Mom every week. Every woman in the audience laughed. 'cause it's true. There's something right, about these randomly wrong guys. Which is why we love them. We think we can tame them. Heal them. Make them strong in the ways we want. And that, my friend, is where everything falls down. Because there is a moment where crazy-good-bad-boy, turns into just crazy. Scary crazy. I'm not here to change your mind though. You do you. However, if you're reading this and you just got this thing, this feeling which isn't quite comfortable. Maybe you should make another choice. Love always T and Spirit, dino_the_dinosaur_kettle and the tribe. * I respect the Elders of the Land where I work, live, laugh, love and play - Past, Present and Future.